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    I do think some younger people may just be doing more "sports" and fun stuff. Admittedly I don't care for "obedience". at best I get into Rally-O. Otherwise I am into dock diving, agility. I tried hunt classes but Rocky has no interest (and transportation was an issue). Looking into barn hunt stuff as well. I guess other than Agility they are things that require less training that you go do it when you want and there is an event in town.

    I took a rally-o class with a local obedience club and didn't really like it. I suspect maybe I missed that you needed prior experiences to join (it was Penny's first class). They expected the dogs to know all the behaviours already and most of the others knew each other. So I was really "odd man out". No one was mean or condesending or anything.

    And yes, very few men to speak of. Lots of older women and then in the sports some "younger" women (am i considered younger? I guess I was when I started but not so much anymore haha). I am VERY jealous of the lovely young retired women going to the agility field during the "workweek" while the rest of us scramble to find a black of available time in the hot afternoons after work :P

    Good luck! I know nothing about clubs at most I almost was on the local dock diving club committee but it sorta was sprung on me and I declined as I couldn't get all the answers to my questions before the deadline to accept (which was like 2 days haha).

    Clickish - I wonder if much of that is just unintentional. when you know each other you'll ask how you're doing, what's new, how this or that is going. you probably don't see each other THAT often so you try to catch up. Or really just deal with the event/issues that need to be delt with! And many can also be shy so beyond welcoming new people and asking a few questions about their dog it can be hard to engage into full conversations. But yes if you can bridge them into conversation that helps get them interested and wanting to participate more.

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    I haven’t found most clubs to be cliqueish, but at Tanya says, anytime a group of people already know each other it can make someone new feel like an outsider. I used to be quite shy but as I’ve gotten older, I’ve gotten over it and have found if I just go up to people and start a conversation (asking about their dog is a good ice breaker) most dog people are quite friendly.

    I do think it’s true that younger people are more attracted to “fun” sports like Agility and Rally, but those can be a gateway - I’ve met a few people who gave up Agility when they got older in favor of Obedience as it is less physically strenuous, LOL. And also some that started in Agility, did some Obedience to get more control over their dogs and fell in love with it. There is no official “junior handler” program, but many clubs at least in the past would offer prizes for best junior handler. Too often those were’t won though. I don’t feel like there are fewer people doing Obedience in my area, but there are definitely fewer people interested in judging - that’s a problem as we’ve lost more judges than we’ve gained in recent years. The sport is changing though - we used to have huge, multi-ring trials but those are now being dropped in favor of more frequent smaller one-ring trials. Lots of people prefer it as their dogs aren’t properly proofed for the big events, but I miss the excitement and hustle-bustle of the larger shows.
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    Our obedience club is definitely lacking in the warmth and positive support category! I am well past the outsider phase and see it for what it is. They are, however, very organized and run great trials and I know they work really hard!

    Our club idea was downgraded to an invitation-only training group with the possibility of creating an AKC club at a later date. Which, to me sounds clicque-y. LOL! Oh well...

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    sounds like a good start though!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tanya View Post
    sounds like a good start though!
    Definitely! I'm pretty happy with it.

 



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