DuneDoggy
10-30-2008, 08:28 PM
So...I posted last week about the starving cat that wandered into our garage and was getting into the trash. She was starving because she has no claws, front or back, and was unable to hunt. We were hoping she belonged to our neighbors who were out of town. Their grown son was watching the house and we were hoping she had escaped. We were keeping her locked in the garage until they came home and I could ask them about her. Well, they are home and she's not their cat. :(
She's a very sweet cat and the kids love her. I'm very allergic, as are my kids I think, so having her in the house really isn't an option. I'm looking into some wipes and that sort of thing that would help lay her dander, but I still don't think it would be enough to be able to have her in the house.
I presented two options to the family. The first, we try to find her a good home where she can be a house cat. The second, we keep her but she spends days outside and at night we hope she comes home to sleep in the garage where she would be safe from night time predators. We live in the country and have a barn, hay stacks, etc. Places where she could go to be safe during the day if needed. I explained to the kids that any decision we make in life comes with consequences and that we just have to decide which we are willing to live with. So, I'm really torn, but I think we are going to try to keep her. We are feeding her yummy wet food at night along with free choice dry. I'm hoping she will come back at night to get her yummy canned food. Any thoughts?
Why does this have to be so hard!!!
Oh, in my last post someone mentioned allergy shots. I did have allergy shots years ago for about 5 years. Many of my allergies have improved, however my cat was so severe it's still hard to have around me. I can pet her as long as I don't get her near my face or touch my face. As soon as that happens, I'm doomed. And it appears my kids are faced with the same issues and I'm not willing to put them through testing and shots at this time. So, we play with her and then wash our hands, but I don't think she could be in the house laying on couches, beds, floor, etc. We may bring her in for a few hours at night to see how it goes. I just don't know. Ugh!!! I hate allergies!
Thanks for listening. Any input would be appreciated. Some folks I talk to say that completely declawed cats can never be outside ever. Others say their cats are out most of the day and come home every night to be let in. We've had barn cats in the past, but it's been about 8 years or so. The other danger here is our road. Most of our cats get killed on the road. After we lost our last one, DH said no more. He just couldn't go through burying another cat.
She's a very sweet cat and the kids love her. I'm very allergic, as are my kids I think, so having her in the house really isn't an option. I'm looking into some wipes and that sort of thing that would help lay her dander, but I still don't think it would be enough to be able to have her in the house.
I presented two options to the family. The first, we try to find her a good home where she can be a house cat. The second, we keep her but she spends days outside and at night we hope she comes home to sleep in the garage where she would be safe from night time predators. We live in the country and have a barn, hay stacks, etc. Places where she could go to be safe during the day if needed. I explained to the kids that any decision we make in life comes with consequences and that we just have to decide which we are willing to live with. So, I'm really torn, but I think we are going to try to keep her. We are feeding her yummy wet food at night along with free choice dry. I'm hoping she will come back at night to get her yummy canned food. Any thoughts?
Why does this have to be so hard!!!
Oh, in my last post someone mentioned allergy shots. I did have allergy shots years ago for about 5 years. Many of my allergies have improved, however my cat was so severe it's still hard to have around me. I can pet her as long as I don't get her near my face or touch my face. As soon as that happens, I'm doomed. And it appears my kids are faced with the same issues and I'm not willing to put them through testing and shots at this time. So, we play with her and then wash our hands, but I don't think she could be in the house laying on couches, beds, floor, etc. We may bring her in for a few hours at night to see how it goes. I just don't know. Ugh!!! I hate allergies!
Thanks for listening. Any input would be appreciated. Some folks I talk to say that completely declawed cats can never be outside ever. Others say their cats are out most of the day and come home every night to be let in. We've had barn cats in the past, but it's been about 8 years or so. The other danger here is our road. Most of our cats get killed on the road. After we lost our last one, DH said no more. He just couldn't go through burying another cat.