I didn't realize that was an issue and that long a drive is certainly be another consideration. I am more likely to go to closer grocery stores, car service places, hair cutters, whatever I can manage, the closer, the better. Our drive to the vet is about 30 minutes even though there are numerous closer vets. It's a busy practice and I can't say they love up on my dogs like some others on here describe their vets, but there are other advantages that keep us going there. We also have an emergency vet facility 10 minutes away. It was cavalier of me to just say I'd change without taking those circumstances into account, so sorry for that.
Maybe you can work with them to find a better way to get Remy up on the table, if that is the main issue you're having with that vet. I don't think I'd let them lift my dog by his collar, regardless. I'd probably get a reputation for being that owner!