Originally Posted by
kimbersmom
I keep thinking about this thread because I was quick to condemn people but upon reflection, I'm probably guilty of this too.
We're scheduled to close on our new house by the end of this week (fingers and paws crossed) and my puppy fever has ramped up. I've missed having a dog so much; Kimber was so core to our lives. Meanwhile, in the last six months, I had one close family member pass away and another diagnosed with terminal cancer. Labs bring so much positive energy. I need a purpose, I need something to love, I need a lab to make me laugh and smile each day.
DH is still not convinced now is the right time, and we debate whether to get a puppy (cuteness beyond measure) or look for an older dog (because lab puppies can be monsters). Meanwhile, I keep cruising the rescue lists and researching breeders who will have available litters soon. And if DH finally agrees that now is okay, I will jump.
I completely respect people who can wait a year+ to get a puppy from a breeder, and that may be me in the future. I've learned so much from this board about the breed and the ethics involved. But if we do get a puppy now, I hope I won't be judged too harshly.
/True confessions