Older dog and new puppy - dominance
Hi all. So the transition of our new puppy (chubbs) has been interesting for our 6.5 year old (charger). He has gone through a lot of phases from detachment and acting dejected (ended up going to the vet for this due to dehydration), to liking us again but completely ignoring chubbs, than onto allowing chubbs to be near him and occasionally playing keep away with him with a toy. But the last 2 days I noticed he is getting riskier and getting closet to chubbs and sniffing at him a lot more but my concern is he is starting to show dominance. Last night my husband had chubbs in his lap and charger watched them while lightly growling. He was also running around and throwing his bed around with his head like he was showing his control. Today i went home over lunch and Charger has pooped in his pen, right beside his kennel!
I do have to add that charger has never attacked chubbs, gave warning nips a few times when chubbs jumps at him(which we are constantly watching and telling chubbs no and down when he tries this) or just low warning growls. Nothing aggressive.
Now I know this will take time for him to adjust as I get it, it is really hard for Charger to have gone from 6 years as the only child to having a new puppy in the house. But does anyone have any suggestions to help us with this transition either to promote their getting along (chubbs loves him and wants to play it's really charger we have to convince) and the dominance that charger is starting to show??? I know this sounds silly but I want them to be friends! ha! Thank you!!!