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Just because your textbook rhetoric does not satisfy all questions, situations and people doesn't give you carte blanche to criticize,
go back and read, I didn't even leave advice for the OP, I...

example; dog runs in front of moving car...you're right! counted to ten and it's too late! oh well, at least he didn't get yelled at.

So, how about this? Run to the bedroom and lock the door (deny him attention), use this opportunity to bandage up your arms and legs, carefully open door and ask
if he's "all better", problem...

Did you even read the OP post? "at wits end", before getting into this positive stuff? everyone is entitled to their opinion, but I'm not going to reward a dog for biting me!

This sounds like a very good suggestion for the OP, and a thorough explanation on how to use it.