Originally Posted by
littlebeam
Thanks for all the replies and advise. Yes, having a dog is expensive, and her ACL surgery set us back a little, but that is not his main concern, I believe. He is open toa different kind of dog, or possibly a cat, but does not want another lab. He may consider a lap dog, but I love labs and don't much care for little dogs. His complaints are all the shedding. He brings up how he had to carry Zoe up and down the steps after she had her ACL surgery. He brings up all the times we had to get up in the middle of the night to let her outside because we thought she was going to get sick, or have diarrhea(sp). He complains about the messes from those things when they happened in the house. At the time these things happened, he hardly complained at all, and did it without question. He loved her dearly and she was Daddy's girl. She was our first dog, and I'm sure we made many mistakes, but she was spoiled rotten and loved to the max. Like I said in my initial post, I just cannot understand how he is only thinking of the bad parts of owning a lab, and not the joy and love she gave us. We are in our early 60's, and she made us get out and do things. Nothing I say will change his mind about the bad times we went through. If I didn't know better, you'd think he disliked her immensely, but I know that is not the case. I will give him more time as some have suggested, but it doesn't look promising for me to get my lab.